Kate Manne's chilling narration of Andrew Puzder's demands upon his abused ex-wife speaks exactly to what male dominance demands of women who suffered abuse: public agreement that the abuse never occurred. @kate_manne/1532321215272169473
Manne's chapter is what I thought of when trying to figure out what rule, exactly, did Amber Heard break by writing that op-ed.
Effectively she broke Depp's entitlement to be in control of the public narrative.